Domestic violence is cruelty
No one has the right to
abuse YOU period. There are
different forms of domestic violence such as emotional, intimidation, battery,
sexual, physical abuse, hurtful words, and other abusive behavior one partner
uses consistently to maintain power and control over the other. Domestic
violence can happen to anyone and in any kind of relationships, but it is
mostly directed towards women.
Sometimes a partner is so jealous that they use isolation
and restriction of freedom to abuse their partner. They want to spend all of their
time with their partner preventing them to visit their friends and family
members. In any social events where the abuser is not in control, they will not
allow their partner to attend. The abuser might even monitor the social
accounts of their victims including their emails and phone.
For any relationship to flourish there should be love
between the partners. However, if down the road the love has run its course and
both parties do not love each other anymore, split and let each other go their
separate ways. But never resort to bullying and violence to control your
partner and make them do certain things they are not willing to do, just because
you want to control them. You should never hit a woman and vice versa.
People, how can someone beat up a woman, gives her some
bruises and then later on, ask that same woman, let us make love and have sex.
While having sex, that same man will be looking at the woman in the face and
seeing those bruises he gave her and still be having that sex. The question
then is, is the man enjoying the sex while seeing those bruises he gave the
woman? That is disguising, despicable and unacceptable. No one has the right
to beat you in any relationship. This applies to both men and women.
If someone beat you up once, and you forgive him and you
stay in the relationship, thinking that he will change his behavior, you are
mistaken. Then he beats you again and some women will still stay in the
relationship. Many women allowed
themselves to be bullied and beaten repeatedly. When you ask them, why
are you still in the relationship? They will say, quote “I love him”. You do not
love anyone for them to beat you up. No matter how imperfect you are in the
relationship, you are not in any relationship to be beaten up by anyone. One
day he will kill you. If anyone beats you in any relationship, leave that
person and find love elsewhere. You can also sue your partner in court for
harassment, emotional distress, and other forms of abuse. Domestic violence is cruelty.
For anonymous, confidential
help available 24/7, call the National Domestic Violence Hotline at
1-800-799-7233 (SAFE) or 1-800-787-3224 (TTY).
